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There's a code "DTN13" for a FREE Zoya Nail Polish with any non-spoon purchase at through 11/15/2012.

You put the polish in your cart; when you apply the code, it deducts the cost of one polish from your total.

Standard shipping is about $7 and still applies.
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Fat Fashionista blogs & a quote from a NYT article:

Ms. Rutter of Arched Eyebrow said plus-size shoppers are conditioned to buy only cheap clothing.

“We don’t have aspirational designer fashion under our noses every time we pick up a magazine,” she said. “There aren’t pages and pages of Miu Miu or Isabel Marant to set the tone for the quality and price of clothes we could wear.”

One problem is that plus-sizes are often considered a transient state, a shameful stop before heading back to smaller sizes.

“When you feel that your current body is temporary, why spend money dressing it well?” said Ragini Nag Rao, 27, who writes for the blog A Curious Fancy from England and India. “Fat women need to realize that their bodies are worth dressing well.”
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When [personal profile] nilchance linked me to this excerpt of an essay by Deborah Schoeneman, she wrote: "You know, this article on "women-children" actually makes me hear the author going OMG GUYS STOP HAVING FUN STOP IT I'M TELLING MOM."

And yeah. That's definitely in there; a musty whiff of sour grapes that there are legions of women accessing a kind of femaleness that she doesn't like and isn't interested in. And that, in and of itself, pisses me off, that Schoenenman feels the need to pathologize this into some kind of O NOES national crisis.

But it also makes me sad, because this is a woman who has been sold a bill of goods. Somewhere she picked up a black and white checklist of what Adulthood and Adult Womanhood are and any items, any behaviors that fall outside of that narrow arrow slit window are not only Immature (with requisite capitals), not only offensive, but are somehow DANGEROUS to the pedastaled ideals of Adulthood and Adult Womanhood.

Sadly, this isn't at all uncommon.

Let me break it down for you:

I don't want to be a kid again. I don't want to de-age. My childhood was better than some, worse than others and it's nothing I feel the need to repeat. Honestly, the young are not all that interesting, as a mass entity, in the same way the old are not all that interesting. People are interesting. Groups are generally dumb. I tell my stylist politely but firmly that I'm not interested in dying my gray away and I spend absolutely no time scrutinizing my face for new wrinkles...but I'll take every iota of pleasure from the lady who stops me to admire my sparkly, glittery, neon colored nails. Because that's how I roll.

I was an uptight, overly responsible, old-before-my-time and stressed out kid. I was that because my mother was often NOT an overly responsible person and someone in that house needed to be. Now that I'm married and out on my own and making my own way, I am a much relaxed, and yet still responsible grown up. I pay my bills before everything else, I have savings for the first time in my life...and sometimes I wear my hair in pigtails, because I rock that shit like you wouldn't believe. These things are not incompatible.

This response from XOJane is a good one, tongue-in-cheek while still making a lot of important points about where Schoeneman goes wrong, but what I think she doesn't say and what strikes me as most tragic about Schoeneman's essay is her inability to rejoice in the fact that women, as a collective, are finding new ways to reclaim and redefine their womanhood in ways that were never available before; to step outside of the forced freeze frames of work and family and a slow fade into pastel obscurity. THERE ARE OTHER THINGS OUT THERE FOR YOU, IF YOU WANT THEM.

For myself, I have to admit, I have never been so happy as when I've been willing to push against those mental boundaries of what I've been told (and what I've self-defined) as "appropriate" and "proper" and "adult". I find that, most of the time, those boundaries are as ironclad or permeable as I LET them be.

And that's a good thing.
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A couple things of note:

Cult Nails is going to discontinue a bunch of their colors and is having a sale that runs until some time Sunday. Their polishes usually retail at $10; they're on sale for $7 right now.

[personal profile] nilchance recently linked me to this blog, Nouveau Cheap that also puts out a daily newsletter on cosmetic sales, drug store sales, etc. Even when I'm not in the market for anything, I'm kind of enjoying this lazy-man's source for what's going on in the cosmetics world.

And then completely selfishly...

I heard of Julep through the nail comm I belong to here on DW. The deal with them is that they have a membership program where, for 19.99 a month, you get sent a box with at least 2 (and something extra) nail polishes, the colors based on your style profile that you fill out when you join (though, it's my understanding that you can pick boxes from other style profiles if you like them better). There's no purchase commitment, you can quit any time you like. And, one unexpected perq is that, if you want to, you can send your box for the month to someone else--anyone else you like.

My introductory box hasn't arrived yet, so I can't yet vouch for the quality of their merchandise; obviously I'll get back to you about that. But, as of a couple days ago when I signed up, the coupon code COLOR2012 will get your your first (introductory) box for 1 cent.

The part where this gets selfish... IF you do decide you want to check this out (and I'm not saying you should!) but IF you do, if you use my referral code: then I get credits that I can later use. So yeah. I have some small amount of shame about this, since I've never done anything like this before, but seriously, not twisting anyone's arm, either.
imperfectlyperfect: Text: I like being weird. Weird's all I've got, that and my sweet style (Sweet Style)
Here, have a post about Olympians' nail art.

I grew up in that transitional period of time where we were starting to discard the notion that the only 'true' or 'right' nail colors were red and pinks, but it was still early enough that other colors were regarded as weird and/or childish and could/would/did affect you getting a job or how you were perceived at that job.

And, even as I wanted to embrace color and other colors than those ubiquitous reds and pinks (not that I don't love reds and pinks, too, mind) even when I tried, it felt weird or conspicuous in a way I didn't enjoy, especially as a lot of the social feedback about it was so negative. (I also throw my mom in there, because she did grow up in a time when it was red or pink or nothing, and she had definite feelings about other colors)

So, having gotten over my inhibitions at this date about "crazy" colors--and sitting on my couch now with my bright green nails--there's something tremendous and awesome to me about seeing how creative nail expression--both in color and design--has become something that is ALSO adult and acceptable and even admired. I love looking at people's nails and the creativity that goes into it and being reminded over and over again that there really are no rules. You can have all your nails the same, or they can all be different or they can be somewhere in between. You can have a repeating pattern or a repeating color...but you don't have to. Your nails can express anything and do it in pretty much any way you want and there's no ratchet-faced deportment master standing at your elbow with a switch to whack you one for getting it wrong.

There's a very obvious metaphor here, about the Olympians being forced into a single, unified uniform, and how they took the mediums they did have control of, in particular their nails, and called out their individuality anyway.

I love that. I think that's great.


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